{"id":10248,"date":"2026-06-21T05:23:36","date_gmt":"2026-06-21T05:23:36","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/placedesnations.org\/index.php\/2026\/06\/21\/how-can-we-help-our-fathers-live-longer\/"},"modified":"2026-06-21T05:23:36","modified_gmt":"2026-06-21T05:23:36","slug":"how-can-we-help-our-fathers-live-longer","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/placedesnations.org\/index.php\/2026\/06\/21\/how-can-we-help-our-fathers-live-longer\/","title":{"rendered":"How can we help our fathers live longer?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>When 56-year-old Shane Newton, a father from Huntingdon in Cambridgeshire, finally decided to visit his GP, it was too late.<\/p>\n<p>The cancer, which was in his prostate, had already spread to his bones &#8211; something doctors say is much harder to treat and is now incurable.<\/p>\n<p>Prostate cancer is relatively straightforward to manage if caught early, and he says, looking back, he \u00ab\u00a0wished\u00a0\u00bb he&rsquo;d seen a doctor \u00ab\u00a0seven or eight months before\u00a0\u00bb.<\/p>\n<p>He put his tiredness down to working long hours in a factory and did not think it was necessary to go to the GP.<\/p>\n<p>\u00ab\u00a0I kept putting it off, and just left it too long, I realise that now,\u00a0\u00bb he says.<\/p>\n<p>\u00ab\u00a0It&rsquo;s just a man thing.. You just don&rsquo;t like to admit you&rsquo;re not feeling good, you just sort of get on with life, you have aches and pains&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>\u00ab\u00a0Because of work, I did 12-hour shifts, and so I didn&rsquo;t really get much spare time&#8230; so I just slept and went back to work the next morning.\u00a0\u00bb<\/p>\n<p>By the time he sought help, the PSA test &#8211; used by GPs to flag prostate cancer &#8211; was dangerously high.<\/p>\n<p>\u00ab\u00a0They said anything over 4 for my age is a red flag; mine was 78.\u00a0\u00bb<\/p>\n<p>Newton&rsquo;s story reflects a wider picture. Men are less likely to visit the GP than women. In Cambridgeshire, around 40% of those attending health checks in surgeries are men, compared with 60% women.<\/p>\n<p>In England, one in five men will die before the age of 65, compared with roughly one in eight women. Women also live, on average, almost four years longer than men.<\/p>\n<p>Cancer accounts for the largest share of male deaths, while heart disease &#8211; much of it linked to blood pressure and lifestyle &#8211; remains the single biggest killer.<\/p>\n<p>They are statistics that underline why the government&rsquo;s men&rsquo;s health strategy, launched in November, has been described as long overdue.<\/p>\n<p>So, is anything changing, and how can men be kept healthier and living longer?<\/p>\n<p>At the Onyx Tribe CrossFit gym in Huntingdon, some believe attitudes are shifting. But even among those who prioritise fitness, health can still be overlooked.<\/p>\n<p>Louis Pearce, 24, a field sales executive, said despite being very fit, he sometimes ignored symptoms.<\/p>\n<p>\u00ab\u00a0The last time I went to the GP was four, maybe five years ago.\u00a0\u00bb<\/p>\n<p>\u00ab\u00a0I often get into a cul-de-sac, searching up myself about what the problems are with me, and I usually assume that in time, these things will pass, so I only go if it&rsquo;s really serious.\u00a0\u00bb<\/p>\n<p>He suggested more accessible services &#8211; such as walk-in centres or helplines &#8211; could make a difference.<\/p>\n<p>Others say they see the same thing. Lukas Koziel, 42, said he had been putting off a GP visit.<\/p>\n<p>\u00ab\u00a0I haven&rsquo;t seen a GP for about two years. I&rsquo;ve booked an appointment next Friday, but I&rsquo;ve been avoiding it \u2014 and to be honest, I don&rsquo;t know why.\u00a0\u00bb<\/p>\n<p>GPs say they are having to adapt to these behaviours.<\/p>\n<p>Dr Neil Modha, at Thistlemoor Medical Centre in Peterborough, said some men still delayed seeking help until symptoms became serious.<\/p>\n<p>\u00ab\u00a0They may come in, for example, telling us they&rsquo;ve lost two stones in weight, and we would hope they would have come sooner\u00a0\u00bb<\/p>\n<p>He said that meant making every interaction count. A visit for back pain, for example, could become an opportunity to check blood pressure or discuss mental health.<\/p>\n<p>Dr Modha said services needed to be more proactive, reaching out instead of relying on patients booking appointments and being flexible.<\/p>\n<p>\u00ab\u00a0Many people might be in really busy jobs, and so Monday to Friday services may not work for them.<\/p>\n<p>\u00ab\u00a0We need to offer Saturdays, and here, we do open up on Saturdays until five o&rsquo;clock.\u00a0\u00bb<\/p>\n<p>The approach reflects a wider shift in the government&rsquo;s strategy &#8211; taking services into the community rather than expecting men to come forward.<\/p>\n<p>In Cambridgeshire, this includes mobile and self-service health checks in everyday settings.<\/p>\n<p>Machines in supermarkets, leisure centres and libraries can assess body mass index, blood pressure, heart health and body fat in around ten minutes.<\/p>\n<p>Michael Hadley, 49, a business consultant, tried one during his lunch break at Huntingdon library, describing it as \u00ab\u00a0simple\u00a0\u00bb and \u00ab\u00a0painless to use\u00a0\u00bb.<\/p>\n<p>He said the results were \u00ab\u00a0surprising\u00a0\u00bb and had given him \u00ab\u00a0something to think about\u00a0\u00bb, after being told his blood pressure was slightly raised and his body fat was classified as \u00ab\u00a0high\u00a0\u00bb.<\/p>\n<p>Councillor Luis Navarro, of Cambridgeshire County Council, said uptake had been encouraging.<\/p>\n<p>\u00ab\u00a0It&rsquo;s free, accessible, and the results are almost instant.\u00a0\u00bb<\/p>\n<p>He added that use was now almost evenly split between men and women \u2014 something he described as \u00ab\u00a0positive\u00a0\u00bb.<\/p>\n<p>The machines are linked to GP records and trigger follow-up calls where needed.<\/p>\n<p>But for many men, illness is not just physical &#8211; it can take a mental toll.<\/p>\n<p>Places like the Montagu Working Men&rsquo;s Club, once associated with drinking and smoking, are now hosting something very different.<\/p>\n<p>Run by Hunts Community Cancer Network, the support group brings together men living with cancer &#8211; talking, playing darts and cards, and supporting each other in person and online.<\/p>\n<p>For Jim Smith, a long-time member who survived pancreatic cancer, it has been life-changing.<\/p>\n<p>\u00ab\u00a0You sort of descend into this vacuum. You&rsquo;ve been looked after and cared for, and now you&rsquo;re on your own,\u00a0\u00bb he said.<\/p>\n<p>\u00ab\u00a0You could be surrounded by family, but you feel very alone. And that is the only way I can describe it, feeling very alone, but surrounded by people.<\/p>\n<p>\u00ab\u00a0When you&rsquo;re with people like these guys, they get it. They know how you feel.<\/p>\n<p>\u00ab\u00a0Psychologically, I&rsquo;ve improved a great deal, and that is due to this group.\u00a0\u00bb<\/p>\n<p>He said support like this was essential &#8211; and that men should not try to cope alone.<\/p>\n<p>Newton agrees. \u00ab\u00a0Get yourself checked\u2026 otherwise you&rsquo;d be like me and leave it too late,\u00a0\u00bb he warned.<\/p>\n<p>A Department of Health and Social Care spokesperson said:<\/p>\n<p>\u00ab\u00a0The Men&rsquo;s Health Strategy marked a turning point in how we&rsquo;re taking comprehensive, coordinated action to address the health challenges facing men and boys.\u00a0\u00bb<\/p>\n<p>The department said it was investing up to \u00a33.6m in suicide prevention projects for men and boys and working with Premier League clubs to reach wider audiences.<\/p>\n<p>Do you have a story suggestion for Cambridgeshire? Contact us below.<\/p>\n<p>BBC Politics East will be broadcast on Sunday 1 February at 10:00 GMT on BBC One in the East of England, and will be available after broadcast on BBC iPlayer.<\/p>\n<p>Follow Cambridgeshire news on BBC Sounds, Facebook, Instagram and X.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>When 56-year-old Shane Newton, a father from Huntingdon in Cambridgeshire, finally decided to visit his GP, it was too late. The cancer, which was in his prostate, had already spread to his bones &#8211; something doctors say is much harder to treat and is now incurable. 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