{"id":9722,"date":"2026-01-29T06:01:39","date_gmt":"2026-01-29T06:01:39","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/placedesnations.org\/index.php\/2026\/01\/29\/hospitals-neglect-in-my-sons-death-has-ripped-our-hearts-out\/"},"modified":"2026-01-29T06:01:39","modified_gmt":"2026-01-29T06:01:39","slug":"hospitals-neglect-in-my-sons-death-has-ripped-our-hearts-out","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/placedesnations.org\/index.php\/2026\/01\/29\/hospitals-neglect-in-my-sons-death-has-ripped-our-hearts-out\/","title":{"rendered":"&lsquo;Hospital&rsquo;s neglect in my son&rsquo;s death has ripped our hearts out&rsquo;"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Peter Dervin had spent all day by his son&rsquo;s side in Broomfield Hospital before he decided to get dinner.<\/p>\n<p>He pleaded with staff at the Essex facility not to leave his eldest child, Greg, alone in his absence.<\/p>\n<p>\u00ab\u00a0They almost laughed at me and said, &lsquo;This is what we do. We&rsquo;re nurses and we look after patients&rsquo;,\u00a0\u00bb Dervin recalls.<\/p>\n<p>Greg had been given lorazepam, an anxiety drug flagged by clinicians as leaving him prone to becoming unsteady and agitated.<\/p>\n<p>When his dad returned to the ward a short while later, Greg was in a critical condition.<\/p>\n<p>Left alone in his room, the 35-year-old had fallen over and hit his head on a piece of equipment, causing a catastrophic brain injury.<\/p>\n<p>Greg, a father, structural engineer and Arsenal fan from Roxwell, near Chelmsford, died a week later, on 10 May 2024.<\/p>\n<p>A four-day inquest at Essex Coroner&rsquo;s Court found on Tuesday that neglect by the Mid and South Essex NHS Foundation Trust contributed to his death.<\/p>\n<p>\u00ab\u00a0Greg was my first son and the person who made me walk taller and be a good person,\u00a0\u00bb says Dervin, who lives in Broomfield, near Chelmsford.<\/p>\n<p>\u00ab\u00a0He was going to be an amazing dad. It didn&rsquo;t turn out that way and we&rsquo;re all sad because of that.\u00a0\u00bb<\/p>\n<p>Greg was being treated for a heart issue brought on by what his family branded \u00ab\u00a0mismanagement\u00a0\u00bb of his Crohn&rsquo;s disease.<\/p>\n<p>He was transferred from a London hospital to Broomfield on 23 April 2024 and had been on track to be discharged after almost 500 days of treatment.<\/p>\n<p>Area coroner Sonia Hayes said he arrived in Essex with a \u00ab\u00a0significant, comprehensive discharge plan\u00a0\u00bb that included two-to-one care.<\/p>\n<p>But those dedicated nurses were removed by Broomfield and replaced by a security guard, whose task was to watch Greg from outside his room.<\/p>\n<p>That guard, Olufemi Oyedeji, was not permitted to make clinical interventions and so could not help Greg \u2013 despite having seen him fall numerous times before his fatal plunge.<\/p>\n<p>Those falls should have been referred to the trust&rsquo;s falls team but were not, the inquest was told.<\/p>\n<p>Hayes said it was a \u00ab\u00a0gross failure\u00a0\u00bb by the hospital to have decided Greg needed close supervision but instead employ someone who could not fulfil the role.<\/p>\n<p>\u00ab\u00a0He had to watch my son fall and die through a door because he wasn&rsquo;t allowed in the room,\u00a0\u00bb Dervin said.<\/p>\n<p>It was also questioned at the inquest whether a security guard was appropriate, considering Greg had been assaulted by one at a different hospital.<\/p>\n<p>Hayes said many of the assessments about Greg were \u00ab\u00a0riddled with inaccuracies\u00a0\u00bb.<\/p>\n<p>One stated he did not have a neurological deficit, despite him spending more than 450 days at the National Hospital for Neurology and Neurosurgery in London.<\/p>\n<p>But perhaps the key error was staff failing to notice Greg had \u00ab\u00a0a very particular sensitivity to lorazepam\u00a0\u00bb.<\/p>\n<p>On the day of his fall on 3 May 2024, he had been given the drug ahead of a CT scan.<\/p>\n<p>Dervin says he warned the nurses: \u00ab\u00a0We&rsquo;ve been looking after him for more than a year in hospital and lorazepam has affected him massively every time \u2013 look after him.\u00a0\u00bb<\/p>\n<p>When Greg&rsquo;s dad went to get his food, he told them to call him if there were any problems.<\/p>\n<p>He explains: \u00ab\u00a0I came back a few hours later to find him in bed with a massive cut on the back of his head and unconscious.<\/p>\n<p>\u00ab\u00a0That&rsquo;s the last time I ever spoke to him. It ripped my heart out.<\/p>\n<p>\u00ab\u00a0If they hadn&rsquo;t said they would look after him, I wouldn&rsquo;t have gone home. I would&rsquo;ve stayed because I knew what lorazepam was like for him.\u00a0\u00bb<\/p>\n<p>During the inquest, Hayes accused the hospital trust of intentionally withholding key information from her.<\/p>\n<p>Staff had told her no first-hand report was written about the incident, but it later emerged that was not true.<\/p>\n<p>Instead, whoever prepared the hospital&rsquo;s evidence for the inquest had not clicked on drop-down boxes online to reveal it.<\/p>\n<p>Hayes said she was \u00ab\u00a0shocked and disappointed\u00a0\u00bb. The hospital&rsquo;s lawyer said it was \u00ab\u00a0unacceptable\u00a0\u00bb \u2013 but denied it was intentional.<\/p>\n<p>\u00ab\u00a0The process has been horrendous, all they&rsquo;ve done is not be honest with us,\u00a0\u00bb Dervin says.<\/p>\n<p>He claims hospital leaders denied the family bereavement support because Greg died at Addenbrooke&rsquo;s Hospital, Cambridge, where he was transferred after the fall.<\/p>\n<p>\u00ab\u00a0When your son has just died, for a hospital to say &lsquo;We don&rsquo;t owe you a duty of care at all&rsquo; is just the worst,\u00a0\u00bb Dervin adds.<\/p>\n<p>Greg was just about to start an engineering consultancy when he went into hospital.<\/p>\n<p>Described by his dad as \u00ab\u00a0a good person\u00a0\u00bb, he loved spending time with his younger brothers<\/p>\n<p>Dervin continues: \u00ab\u00a0It feels like something&rsquo;s missing, and that&rsquo;s a massive hole. If this was the only kid I had, I&rsquo;d find it hard to wake up in the morning.\u00a0\u00bb<\/p>\n<p>The family hope lessons will be learned so no-one else has to experience what they have gone through.<\/p>\n<p>\u00ab\u00a0People go into hospital and some people die. People get ill and die,\u00a0\u00bb Dervin says.<\/p>\n<p>\u00ab\u00a0But people shouldn&rsquo;t go into hospital and not be cared about.\u00a0\u00bb<\/p>\n<p>The hospital trust said Dervin&rsquo;s case was \u00ab\u00a0particularly complex\u00a0\u00bb and finding all the evidence had been challenging.<\/p>\n<p>Sharon McNally, its chief nursing officer, said: \u00ab\u00a0We&rsquo;d like to reiterate our condolences to Mr Dervin&rsquo;s family, who have been kept regularly updated on the progress of our investigation throughout.<\/p>\n<p>\u00ab\u00a0A full multi-disciplinary review was completed, and learning and improvements have been made to help reduce the future chance of falls with harm.\u00a0\u00bb<\/p>\n<p>Follow Essex news on BBC Sounds, Facebook, Instagram and X.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Peter Dervin had spent all day by his son&rsquo;s side in Broomfield Hospital before he decided to get dinner. He pleaded with staff at the Essex facility not to leave his eldest child, Greg, alone in his absence. \u00ab\u00a0They almost laughed at me and said, &lsquo;This is what we do. We&rsquo;re nurses and we look [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":0,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":{"0":"post-9722","1":"post","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","6":"category-uncategorized"},"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/placedesnations.org\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/9722","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/placedesnations.org\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/placedesnations.org\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/placedesnations.org\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=9722"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/placedesnations.org\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/9722\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/placedesnations.org\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=9722"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/placedesnations.org\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=9722"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/placedesnations.org\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=9722"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}