It is heartbreaking for Myfanwy and Charlie Sleep to watch their once active 28-year-old son lying in bed every day, unable to walk or talk.<\/p>\n
Tomos Sleep, from Swansea, was diagnosed with severe myalgic encephalomyelitis (ME), also known as chronic fatigue syndrome, in 2023. The cause of ME is unknown and there is no cure.<\/p>\n
Tomos is one of thousands with the condition in Wales who campaigners say are \u00ab\u00a0invisible\u00a0\u00bb, with healthcare services described as \u00ab\u00a0a desert\u00a0\u00bb for those most severely affected.<\/p>\n
The Welsh government said proposals for an all\u2011Wales specialist, an expert group and national standards were being \u00ab\u00a0actively considered\u00a0\u00bb.<\/p>\n
\u00ab\u00a0Tomos was an outdoor sort of bloke,\u00a0\u00bb said his dad, Charlie.<\/p>\n
\u00ab\u00a0He enjoyed time with his mates.\u00a0\u00bb<\/p>\n
But in 2019, Tomos started feeling dizzy.<\/p>\n
His condition deteriorated, and four years later he was diagnosed with severe ME after he began struggling to walk and could not tolerate noise or light.<\/p>\n
\u00ab\u00a0It was the year of 2023 when he really went downhill,\u00a0\u00bb said Myfanwy.<\/p>\n
\u00ab\u00a0He was struggling with washing and dressing.\u00a0\u00bb<\/p>\n
One evening, Tomos decided he wanted a bath, but his mum said: \u00ab\u00a0He came downstairs and he could barely walk. He’s been in bed ever since.\u00a0\u00bb<\/p>\n
Charlie and Myfanwy said at his worst, their son looked \u00ab\u00a0paralysed\u00a0\u00bb.<\/p>\n
\u00ab\u00a0He couldn’t open his eyes, couldn’t talk, couldn’t move,\u00a0\u00bb Myfanwy said.<\/p>\n
They said they had tried to have carers at their home, but found that made Tomos worse.<\/p>\n
\u00ab\u00a0He finds it very difficult to have other people in the room with him, to talk with him,\u00a0\u00bb said Myfanwy.<\/p>\n
\u00ab\u00a0If he wants the window open, he’ll look at that. If he needs the toilet, he’ll look at the bedroom door.\u00a0\u00bb<\/p>\n
Charlie added: \u00ab\u00a0The problem with having severe ME is that you can’t communicate.<\/p>\n
\u00ab\u00a0Because there’s no real treatment for it at the moment, and there isn’t a group of consultants that own the disease… people with ME are invisible.\u00a0\u00bb<\/p>\n
ME, sometimes referred to as chronic fatigue syndrome, is a chronic and complex multi-system condition.<\/p>\n
It causes symptoms such as extreme fatigue and post-exertional malaise, which means that simple physical or mental activities can leave people completely debilitated.<\/p>\n
Not everyone with ME is affected in the same way. There is a spectrum of severity, which is categorised as mild, moderate, severe or very severe.<\/p>\n
While researchers are still investigating the causes, triggers may include infection or other illness.<\/p>\n
Fflur Evans, 39, a mother-of-two from Bala, Gwynedd, was diagnosed with ME two years ago.<\/p>\n
She described her symptoms as moderate, meaning she is not always confined to her bed, but said she had left her job as a teacher as the condition \u00ab\u00a0floored\u00a0\u00bb her.<\/p>\n
\u00ab\u00a0I’m not the same person,\u00a0\u00bb she said.<\/p>\n
\u00ab\u00a0I’m stuck in this little bubble in the house.<\/p>\n
\u00ab\u00a0It doesn’t matter how much I rest, sleep, it doesn’t help. I’m in pain every day.<\/p>\n
\u00ab\u00a0Going up and down the stairs can make me dizzy. I can’t bear the sound of zips or cupboards closing.<\/p>\n
\u00ab\u00a0At the beginning, I thought ME was just tiredness. It’s so much more serious.\u00a0\u00bb<\/p>\n
Alwen Davies, 46, from Denbighshire, was diagnosed with moderate ME in 2023.<\/p>\n
She tries to control her symptoms by using pacing techniques – a strategy that balances rest and exertion to minimise post-exertional malaise.<\/p>\n
But she has also had to leave work, and on a bad day she is in bed in the dark.<\/p>\n
\u00ab\u00a0It’s just devastating. It sounds dramatic, but it’s life-changing,\u00a0\u00bb she said.<\/p>\n
\u00ab\u00a0It’s like a grieving process.\u00a0\u00bb<\/p>\n
Campaigners are calling for a national expert group, an all-Wales clinical lead and investment in research into ME.<\/p>\n
Rob Messenger, from Carmarthenshire, campaigns on behalf of patients and carers after two of his children were diagnosed with ME in their teens.<\/p>\n
\u00ab\u00a0We’ve met lots of very caring professionals throughout the years, people who have wanted to help, who have done their best,\u00a0\u00bb Rob said.<\/p>\n
\u00ab\u00a0But there is no specialist to turn to.\u00a0\u00bb<\/p>\n
He added: \u00ab\u00a0The Welsh government has given some funding for the seven health boards to establish some services for people with ME and some other conditions, but without an all-Wales plan for those to be implemented, there’s a bit of a postcode lottery developing.<\/p>\n
\u00ab\u00a0For people with severe and very severe ME, it’s worse than a postcode lottery. It’s pretty much a desert.\u00a0\u00bb<\/p>\n
Betsi Cadwaladr University Health Board in north Wales has expanded its Long Covid service to include ME patients, using funding from the Welsh government’s Adferiad programme.<\/p>\n
Consultant physiotherapist Claire Jones said the service ensured people with any severity of ME could now receive \u00ab\u00a0individualised support\u00a0\u00bb.<\/p>\n
But services are \u00ab\u00a0patchy\u00a0\u00bb across Wales and the UK, according to Dr Binita Kane.<\/p>\n
\u00ab\u00a0Doctors aren’t taught about this condition. The first thing we need is understanding,\u00a0\u00bb she said.<\/p>\n
\u00ab\u00a0If we do the right thing early in the illness, and support people with the right level of pacing, you can prevent that deterioration in a lot of cases.\u00a0\u00bb<\/p>\n
Prof David Price from Cardiff University said funding for research into ME was \u00ab\u00a0urgently needed\u00a0\u00bb.<\/p>\n
The Welsh government said Wales was the first UK nation to extend Long Covid services to people with other infection\u2011associated long\u2011term conditions.<\/p>\n
\u00ab\u00a0We recognise more needs to be done, particularly for people with more severe illness,\u00a0\u00bb it added.<\/p>\n
\u00ab\u00a0Proposals for an all\u2011Wales specialist, an expert group and national standards are being actively considered as part of the service’s ongoing development.\u00a0\u00bb<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
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