{"id":9992,"date":"2026-04-08T23:02:56","date_gmt":"2026-04-08T23:02:56","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/placedesnations.org\/index.php\/2026\/04\/08\/incontinence-problems-leave-me-leaking-while-competing\/"},"modified":"2026-04-08T23:02:56","modified_gmt":"2026-04-08T23:02:56","slug":"incontinence-problems-leave-me-leaking-while-competing","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/placedesnations.org\/index.php\/2026\/04\/08\/incontinence-problems-leave-me-leaking-while-competing\/","title":{"rendered":"Incontinence problems leave me &lsquo;leaking while competing&rsquo;"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Fitness fanatic Aimee Oliver never imagined that giving birth would ultimately cause her to need surgery for incontinence.<\/p>\n<p>Now aged 37, Aimee&rsquo;s problems began in her 20s, when she began to leak urine after coughing or sneezing following the birth of her first child.<\/p>\n<p>\u00ab\u00a0When my body stopped working as it should I actually began to mourn my old self,\u00a0\u00bb she said.<\/p>\n<p>Northern Ireland&rsquo;s five regional health trusts said more people were seeking help for incontinence, and a specialist nurse said there had been a \u00ab\u00a0massive increase\u00a0\u00bb in self-referrals from both men and women.<\/p>\n<p>Aimee &#8211; a personal trainer, fitness fanatic and volleyball champion &#8211; has qualified for the women&rsquo;s Pro Hyrox World championships for the second year.<\/p>\n<p>She said the condition was mentally and physically debilitating &#8211; an irony as she runs a group that helps women build strength and fitness, especially after birth.<\/p>\n<p>Incontinence is the involuntary or accidental loss of bladder (urinary) or bowel (fecal) control, ranging from minor, occasional leaks to complete loss of control.<\/p>\n<p>It is a common symptom of underlying issues, including weak pelvic muscles, neurological disorders, and infections.<\/p>\n<p>Aimee said leaking was \u00ab\u00a0extremely embarrassing\u00a0\u00bb and it was a reason why many women give up exercising or stop going out socially.<\/p>\n<p>She described some of the measures she had to take to stay active.<\/p>\n<p>\u00ab\u00a0In a recent competition in Belfast, I won overall female, but I was leaking while competing and wondering, &lsquo;can people see my shorts are wet?&rsquo;<\/p>\n<p>\u00ab\u00a0That when I am running there is urine running down my legs and I can only ever wear black shorts to try and hide the wet marks.<\/p>\n<p>\u00ab\u00a0I am wearing thick shorts, pads, pessary and a device, and I am still leaking visibly \u2013 it just adds to the stress of competing,\u00a0\u00bb Aimee said.<\/p>\n<p>A mum of three, Aimee believes that women in Northern Ireland are not supported properly after they give birth, as postpartum physiotherapy is not routinely offered.<\/p>\n<p>She said her personal training clients in France, Spain and Sweden describe a more supportive post-natal support system being in place for several months.<\/p>\n<p>\u00ab\u00a0In some countries the whole way through pregnancy and after they automatically have physio appointments &#8211; often 10 sessions post birth and that can make a massive difference to a woman&rsquo;s health in the long-term,\u00a0\u00bb Aimee said.<\/p>\n<p>She is due to undergo pelvic floor surgery in the private sector as she has been told she would have to wait at least six years within the NHS.<\/p>\n<p>\u00ab\u00a0At 37 I am at the peak of my competition fitness, so I don&rsquo;t have six years to wait,\u00a0\u00bb she said.<\/p>\n<p>Pelvic floor muscles are a sling-like layer of muscles spanning the bottom of the pelvis, crucial for supporting the bladder, bowel, and uterus.<\/p>\n<p>They control the release of urine, faeces, and flatus, and play a role in sexual function. Strengthening these muscles helps prevent incontinence and organ prolapse.<\/p>\n<p>Continence specialist nurse Julie Edmonds said incontinence was \u00ab\u00a0extremely common\u00a0\u00bb and there had been a \u00ab\u00a0massive increase\u00a0\u00bb in self-referrals among men and women in the South Eastern Trust where she works alongside four other specialist nurses.<\/p>\n<p>\u00ab\u00a0It can affect anybody, any gender, any age, we are treating men and women from as young as 18 to most recently a woman in her early 100s.<\/p>\n<p>\u00ab\u00a0We are definitely seeing a shift especially among younger women who are just not accepting that because they&rsquo;ve had children, or the menopause they have to put up with it.<\/p>\n<p>\u00ab\u00a0They are starting to realise that there is something that can be done and they are coming forward for help,\u00a0\u00bb she said.<\/p>\n<p>While childbirth is the most common reason for a weakened pelvic floor, Julie said people&rsquo;s drinking habits were another factor.<\/p>\n<p>\u00ab\u00a0We have a massive coffee culture now and people don&rsquo;t realise the impact coffee has on their bladder muscle which can cause increased urinary frequency,\u00a0\u00bb she said.<\/p>\n<p>\u00ab\u00a0So simple things like swapping for decaf,  also swapping fizzy drinks, alcohol, even green tea, for water and diluted juices will, after two weeks, make a massive improvement.\u00a0\u00bb<\/p>\n<p>Northern Ireland&rsquo;s largest health trust, Belfast, said it had seen a 25% increase in monthly referrals since 2020.<\/p>\n<p>Demand is outstripping service availability, according to the trust, which means a six-week wait for urgent referrals and 13 weeks for routine referrals.<\/p>\n<p>None of the health trusts were able to provide waiting list figures, however the South Eastern Health Trust said its waiting time was approximately 18-20 months for routine appointments and about 12 weeks for urgent referrals.<\/p>\n<p>In the Western area there has been a 13% increase in the trust&rsquo;s pelvic health physiotherapy service.<\/p>\n<p>Gr\u00e1inne Donnelly&rsquo;s work is all about pelvic health and encouraging people to train their pelvic floor muscles.<\/p>\n<p>In the middle of her doctoral research, the advanced practice pelvic health physiotherapist said greater emphasis on long-term pelvic health would support people and the health service.<\/p>\n<p>\u00ab\u00a0One in two women withdraw from their sport and that includes in their younger teens &#8211; and that drop off could partly be to do with issues around pelvic floor.<\/p>\n<p>\u00ab\u00a0If people are withdrawing from sport that is a public health priority. We need physical and cardiovascular activity for both our physical and mental health so we shouldn&rsquo;t let our pelvic floor function decline,\u00a0\u00bb she said.<\/p>\n<p>Gr\u00e1inne and Julie both said there was high-quality evidence that most women would be cured with pelvic floor muscle training alone and, if done properly and early, it can mean surgery is avoided.<\/p>\n<p>Aimee believes more knowledge around pelvic health and support for women after giving birth will save the health service money in the long run.<\/p>\n<p>\u00ab\u00a0Pelvic muscles are just like any other muscle in the body which need exercised. If you don&rsquo;t stay on top of them, it can have big consequences as we get older,\u00a0\u00bb Aimee said.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Fitness fanatic Aimee Oliver never imagined that giving birth would ultimately cause her to need surgery for incontinence. Now aged 37, Aimee&rsquo;s problems began in her 20s, when she began to leak urine after coughing or sneezing following the birth of her first child. \u00ab\u00a0When my body stopped working as it should I actually began [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":0,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":{"0":"post-9992","1":"post","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","6":"category-uncategorized"},"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/placedesnations.org\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/9992","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/placedesnations.org\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/placedesnations.org\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/placedesnations.org\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=9992"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/placedesnations.org\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/9992\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/placedesnations.org\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=9992"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/placedesnations.org\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=9992"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/placedesnations.org\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=9992"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}